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Your Intuition is Going to Shout Until You Listen.
Your intuition is probably being very demanding right now. Its time of sitting in the background is over. Its time of being ignored or overlooked is done. It will shove its face in your face and demand your attention like a needy puppy. Why? Because the time of authenticity is now. The time for you to be true to yourself is now. The time for you to let go of the expectations and validations of others is now. Everything is pushing for this. Your heart. The energies around you.
Fiona van Lochem :)
Oct 31, 20252 min read


Why you're Hardwired to Resist Change.
Resistance to change is natural – you are hardwired to resist. There are many forms of resistance when it comes to healing old wounds. Firstly, you will resist acknowledging there is even an issue that needs addressing. Then when you do you will resist acting upon it. There will be a plethora of excuse….I don’t have time to look at that….it’s too expensive….it probably won’t work for me. This is all a normal reaction to change, because we find comfort in what is familiar, eve
Fiona van Lochem :)
Aug 28, 20252 min read


SHE AWAKENED TO HER SOUL.
Soul Awakening A tale of courage and reflection, vulnerability and growth. She lay with her ear to the earth and heard a thousand whispers stretching back a thousand generations through thousands of lifetimes. Whispers that wove together an intricate pattern that formed the fabric of the foundations upon which she had grown. The whispers sang like morning mist through the network of trees which stood in sisterhood, gently cradling the earth. The matriarch held secret
Fiona van Lochem :)
Mar 12, 20254 min read


Breaking Free: How Labels Hold Us Back and What We Can Do About It
Live.Your.Truth Who are you really? You know the scenarios….when you meet people for the first time, present yourself at a workshop or put together a bio…..you will share certain aspects of yourself in a positive light. Of course, why wouldn’t you. But we do this to garner favour, popularity and to be accepted by the group…because no one likes rejection. The thing is, what you are presenting limits how others see you….yes in the short term they may murmur their consent, fee
Fiona van Lochem :)
Feb 12, 20253 min read


The Dawn of a New Era
As the world sits on the precipice of major positive change, how you respond will be a choice. It’s easy to lay blame on external factors...
Fiona van Lochem :)
Nov 8, 20241 min read


Follow your own lead - being your authentic self
RTT Hi all, it's been an age since I last wrote a blog post. Why is that? Well, I just haven't felt the push. The last few years ( wow, really that long?) has been about going within, letting go and being fully authentic. So in order to honour that, I have limited my posting on social media, haven't sent out newsletters or written blog posts. Now of course, those 'influencers' out there ( whatever that means in the real world) would say that that is a bad business strategy an
Fiona van Lochem :)
Jun 22, 20242 min read


THE RISK YOU TAKE BY NOT BEING A RISK TAKER.
Emotion /Body Code What comes to mind when you hear ‘risk taker’? Do you think of someone who drives fast cars or takes up skydiving? Do you think of someone who builds a business and takes on financial debt? Or is it when you think of someone who does something ‘big’? A risk taker need not be someone big and flashy. A risk taker need not be someone who lives off adrenalin. A risk taker can be someone who pulls themselves out of bed when their heart is broken. Who shows up wh
Fiona van Lochem :)
Mar 1, 20212 min read


Reclaiming Your Authority.
RTT A lot can be said about 2020 to date and how it has pushed us all to go within and connect to parts of ourselves we may have forgotten. This golden opportunity to grow and reflect is frightening for many who have, until now, pursued a life of busyness and 'doing' - sometimes as a means for identity and acceptance and sometimes as a means of avoidance. However, as it is a collective year of 20/20 vision, we are no longer allowed the luxury of avoidance and eventually ever
Fiona van Lochem :)
Aug 14, 20202 min read


5 Reasons You Won't Ask for Help
1. I’m the only one. You may think that you are the only one going through what you are going through, and that is so far from the truth....
Fiona van Lochem :)
Feb 16, 20203 min read


What's REALLY going on behind your stress?
Stress and being busy seem to be at the pinnacle of modern society. When people greet each other it is not uncommon when asked ‘ how are...
Fiona van Lochem :)
Oct 21, 20193 min read


4 Ways to Improve your Mindset
Free Range Thinking is what we do when we are not in the flow state, not focused on a task. It might happen when you are waiting in line, co
Fiona van Lochem :)
Sep 26, 20194 min read


5 Signs You're Falling Apart ( and why that's a good thing).
1. Nothing in life sits right with you anymore. You feel out of place in most situations. 2. You step back from relationships and wonder...
Fiona van Lochem :)
Aug 13, 20192 min read


What does Holding Space mean?
When someone holds space for you it is a way of saying ‘ I see your pain and I honour you in that pain.’
Fiona van Lochem :)
May 15, 20193 min read


Using 'Should' Instead of Taking Action
We’ve all done it. You know you do it. “ I really should eat better.” “ I really should exercise more.” “ I really should get more...
Fiona van Lochem :)
Jan 21, 20192 min read


Life is actually about letting go
I In order to move forward you have to let go of the past. For it is in the past that we dwell, that our thoughts and emotions lead us....
Fiona van Lochem :)
Dec 7, 20182 min read


Why hiring a Transformational Coach will elevate you to Success.
We land here on earth without an instruction manual on life. We learn about life from our parents or family, who in turn learnt about...
Fiona van Lochem :)
Nov 30, 20183 min read


YOU Are Not Your Experiences.
When we believe our story we become our story. Yet we are not our story. The things that happened to us are experiences, they are not us....
Fiona van Lochem :)
Oct 23, 20182 min read


Stop nurturing your pain.
This weekend was spent at beautiful Mansfield in Victoria where I watched my partner, Tony Sutcliffe of Peaceful Encounters work his...
Fiona van Lochem :)
Oct 15, 20182 min read


Why ‘she’ll be right’ just doesn’t cut it anymore.
Australia is often seen as a very laid back country. Casual, open and friendly. But when you scratch the surface you’ll find that it’s a...
Fiona van Lochem :)
Sep 2, 20183 min read
You will never be ready.
If you wait until you are ready to make a change or act on something....I've got to tell you it will never happen. Why? Because we are...
Fiona van Lochem :)
Aug 21, 20182 min read
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